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Child's 10 Commandments To Parents
1. My hands are small;
please don't expect perfection whenever I make a bed, draw a picture or
throw a ball. My legs are short; please slow down so that I can keep up
with you.
2. My eyes have not
seen the world as yours have; please let me explore safely; don't restrict
me unnecessarily.
3. Housework will always
be there. I'm only little for such a short time -- please take time to
explain things to me about this wonderful world, and do so willingly.
4. My feelings are
tender; please be sensitive to my needs; don't nag me all day long. (You
wouldn't want to be nagged for your inquisitiveness). Treat me as you would
like to be treated.
5. I am a special gift
from God; please treasure me as God intended you to do, holding me accountable
for my actions, giving me guidelines to live by, and disciplining me in
a loving manner.
6. I need your encouragement
and praise, but not your criticism, to grow. Please go easy on the criticism;
remember, you can criticize the things I do without criticizing me.
7. Please give me the
freedom to make decisions concerning myself. Permit me to fail, so that
I can learn from my mistakes. Then someday I'll be prepared to make the
kind of decisions life requires of
me.
8. Please don't do
things over for me. Somehow that makes me feel that my efforts didn't quite
measure up to your expectations. I know it's hard, but please don't try
to compare me with my brother or my sister.
9. Please don't be
afraid to leave for a weekend. Kids need vacations from parents, just as
parents need vacations from kids.
10. Please take me
to church regularly, setting a good example for me to follow. I enjoy learning
more about God.
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